
Sat · 10pm
Bershy with Phanta
feat. Bershy
Cactus Club
Live music at Cactus Club with Bershy and Phanta — intimate vibes, great sound.
$20 – $25
Pitch a friend or mingle at this free singles event with a mixer and full bar. Presenters get a free drink.
Part I
About this event
Pitch-a-Friend is a unique event designed for singles looking to connect in a fun and relaxed environment. Whether you're pitching a friend or just there to mingle, it's all about making connections and having a good time. The event is free and open to those 21 and over, with a full bar available throughout the evening.
The format is simple: if you want to pitch a friend, prepare a light-hearted presentation about what makes them great and what they're looking for in a partner. Presenters receive a complimentary drink as a thank you. After the presentations, the Single Mingle Mixer offers a chance to chat and see if sparks fly.
Held at The Argo in Whitefish Bay, this event is perfect for those looking to meet new people in a friendly setting. With free parking and a welcoming atmosphere, it's a great way to spend an evening. Be sure to arrive early to secure a good spot and take advantage of the full bar service.
From the organizer
Get pitched, do a pitch, or just hang out in a singles-friendly environment! This event is FREE to attend . 21+ ages welcome. Reserve a pitch spot through the online form! 🎉 Join Us for some Fun, Connections & Laughter! Whether you're pitching a friend or just here to mingle, this event is all about meeting amazing singles and having a fantastic time. 🎤 Want to pitch your friend? Sign up in advance. Spots are limited, so don't wait! Prepare a quick(3-5 minutes), light-hearted presentation about: What makes your friend awesome What they're looking for in a partner Presenters get a complimentary drink at the event! 💬 Just want to attend and mingle? No problem – come join the fun! Bring your friends, relax, and enjoy meeting other amazing singles. It's all about making new connections and having a great time. 🥂 After the Presentations: Stick around for our Single Mingle Mixer! This is your chance to chat, make connections, and maybe see if sparks fly. 🎟 Cost FREE to attend! Doors at 6:30pm. Event at 7:00pm. Full bar service will be available throughout the show, with the kitchen being open 4-close. This is a 21+ event.
Getting in
Drop in anytime — no commitment needed
Pricing details
FREE to attend!
Pro tips
For a quieter conversation, head to the back of the venue after the presentations. The front tends to get lively and loud during the Single Mingle Mixer.
Who'll Be There
A mix of singles looking to connect, some friends supporting their friends pitching, and a few regulars from the venue. Expect a lively atmosphere with people chatting, laughing, and engaging in light-hearted pitches.
Part II · The feel
The details organizers don't always put in the description — pulled from the room, the crowd, and what people remember afterward.
Volume varies a lot. Kids events and festivals swing from quiet to loud with little warning.
Meeting strangers is the point. Low-stakes chat, but you cannot hide in a corner.
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